While going through my treacherous divorce, I created this work using permanent markers on rice paper. I repeatedly wrote the subject words so strongly that they bled onto the back side, creating a more dynamic effect. Unfortunately, there are similarities in the divorce and the state of our country now governed by sexists, racists, distorted patriarchy, corruption, injustice, and a broken legal system.
I experienced many inundated moments riddled with fear, wondering if the multi-year disentanglement would destroy me. (Surely, a corroboration of the “high-octane relationship”). Yet, in the midst, discovering my artistry fueled my passion for justice. Creating art was both medicine and an anchor. Same for my beautiful home, plethora of wellness practices, and supportive team. Victorious was I in transcending the oppression, leaving the relationship, and reclaiming freedom and autonomy. Plus, I learned I am a highly resilient, courageous being, and that courage is taking steps in the midst of fear. And, to be clear, I felt ungodly fear each step of the way in leaving my long-term relationship and marriage.
My hope is that the oblivious and ignorant people in this country who either abstained from voting or voted for this authoritative regime will wake up and choose disentanglement and freedom. What we will have to go through in the process remains very concerning and curious.